Demystifying true love - 4

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The best relation is the one in which you feel free to share even your weakest side and still have the faith that it will strengthen your relationship. The most wonderful thing would be finding someone who knows all your mistakes and weaknesses and still thinks you are PERFECT!!

True love waits, cherishes, understands and is unconditional. It considers its partner to be gift from the heavens and is always grateful to God for being so kind. True love is about loving the person for what he is, with everything what we have.

A person whom you love can never make you complete.  Only two complete people make a complete relationship. Incomplete individuals can never have a fulfilling relationship. When someone makes you feel complete, means you are not complete yourself. And in such relationships you keep on losing yourself bit by bit, piece by piece.

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To expect someone to fall in love with you, you need to be in love with yourself. So that when you fall in love with someone you are able to love that person with everything that you have. Even if things don’t work out, true love with a fulfilling relationship leaves you with a beautiful experience which you cherish for lifetime. That’s the magic of love………. because what matters the most is the happiness of the other person – with or without you. 

You should be grateful that you could know what love is and experience it in a true sense. And love comes to those who still hope even though they have been disappointed; to those who still believe even though they have been betrayed; to those who still need love even though they have been hurt before.

True love is not selfish. Incase you love someone and that person doesn’t love you, you should be glad to be chosen to experience it. Love never has any conditions. You never loved with a condition to be loved back in return. To feel love, to experience it and to get it is a blessing which the Almighty bestows on us.

So, as a famous saying goes – Love like you have never lost and Live as if there is no tomorrow.

Here’s hoping your Prince Charming / Sleeping Beauty walks out of your dreams, makes them come true and fills your world with the colours of true love….!!! AMEN

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